Tuesday, November 8, 2016
Many married couples or couples that are part of a long-term relationship are experiencing serious problems or even divorces and separation as a result of insufficient or complete lack of sex, sexual desire or passion. When partners don’t share these intimate moments together their relationship is going in a different direction making everything difficult. Sexless relationships are not as rare as most people think. Of course, we can’t find the right number because people usually avoid talking about this, but their number is certainly high. In case both partners, or at least one of the partners, doesn’t take some action in a timely manner, the relationship will simply break up or one of them will start cheating. If you are in a situation like this, it is time to use some of the tips we will share in this article.
The first step is to determine the cause of this serious issue. The fact is that there are many different things that can affect our sex lives. For example, some men or women are afraid of pregnancy, others don’t have sufficient sex drive while some develop antipathy against their wife or husband. In any case, what really matters is to find the exact cause. If you are not able to do this on your own, you can talk to an experienced therapist. They are true professionals who will help you, but only if you are completely open.
The next advice is to talk to your partner. Don’t avoid this issue and don’t be shy. A sexless relationship is a problem and it should be discussed. It might be a little bit odd in the beginning, but it will eventually help. It is important not to blame anyone for the situation. The main point is to find a way to solve this issue and continue with your relationship as it once was.
Most experts agree that spending more quality time with your partner can fix your relationship. By spending more time with your partner you will increase trust and love. So, don’t forget the romantic dinners, long morning or afternoon walks, cuddling, hugging, sharing an activity, going outside together and other things that can make your relationship more interesting and exciting.
If you want to maintain a high level of passion in a long relationship or marriage, you should also continue flirting all the time. Don’t hesitate to send a provocative text message, be intimate when you can and take care of yourself- wear beautiful clothes, shave, take care of your hair etc. This is a good way to spark romance.
In addition, visit a doctor and check your overall health. See whether some health issue is making you lose interest in sex. If you are taking pills, try to switch to other pills in case they are affecting your sex drive.